Valentine’s Day 2025: A Time for Love… or Divorce in Florida?
With Valentine’s Day approaching, many couples in Florida celebrate their love. However, for many couples, it marks the final straw in a troubled marriage. Family law attorneys often see a surge in divorce filings in February, following the highs (and lows) of the holiday season.
But why does Valentine’s Day contribute to so many breakups? Is it the pressure of picture-perfect romance? Unmet expectations? Or simply the reality check that love has faded? More importantly, if you’re considering divorce in Florida, what legal factors should you weigh before making a decision? Let’s dive into the February divorce spike and the legal landscape of divorce in the Sunshine State.
Why Do Divorce Rates Increase After Valentine’s Day?
Several factors contribute to the post-Valentine’s Day surge in divorce filings. While every relationship is unique, the following trends are commonly observed:
The Holiday Wake-Up Call
The period between Thanksgiving and Valentine’s Day is a rollercoaster of emotions. Many couples put off breakups to get through the holiday season, avoiding difficult conversations during family gatherings or while their children are home from school. However, once the holidays pass, reality sets in.
Valentine’s Day often serves as the ultimate relationship test—a moment where couples reassess their happiness. If one partner forgets the occasion or delivers a lackluster effort, it can reinforce doubts about the relationship’s future.
Unrealistic Expectations
The media, movies, and social media fuel over-the-top expectations for Valentine’s Day. When reality doesn’t match the fantasy, disappointment kicks in. For struggling couples, a failed Valentine’s Day might not be the sole reason for divorce, but it could be the final confirmation that their relationship is beyond repair.
Financial Stress
The pressure to spend on romantic dinners, expensive gifts, and getaways can amplify financial strain, which is already one of the leading causes of divorce. If finances are tight, arguments over money can turn into the last major fight that convinces one or both partners that it’s time to call it quits.
Infidelity & Emotional Disconnect
Some couples discover an affair around Valentine’s Day, whether through a misplaced text, a suspicious dinner reservation, or a social media post. Meanwhile, others who feel emotionally neglected might realize they’re only staying together out of routine raher than love.t
Understanding Florida’s No-Fault Divorce Laws
If you’re thinking about divorce, it’s crucial to understand how divorce works in Florida. The state follows a no-fault divorce system, meaning neither spouse needs to prove wrongdoing to end the marriage.
What Is No-Fault Divorce?
Under Florida Statute § 61.052, a couple can file for divorce if their marriage is “irretrievably broken.” This means:
No evidence of wrongdoing is required. Adultery, financial mismanagement, or emotional neglect don’t need to be proven in court.
Any spouse can desire a divorce. Even if one party disagrees, the court can still grant the dissolution.
5 Things Couples Should Consider Before Filing Divorce in Florida
While February breakups may feel impulsive, divorce is a major legal step. Here’s what Florida couples should carefully consider before filing:
Residency Requirements
Florida law requires that at least one spouse must have been a resident of the state for six months before filing for divorce.
Division of Marital Assets
Florida follows an equitable distribution model (Florida Statute § 61.075), meaning marital property is divided fairly, but not necessarily equally. Courts consider factors like:
- Length of the marriage
- Each spouse’s financial contributions
- Whether one spouse sacrificed career opportunities for the other
Before initiating a divorce, it’s wise to take inventory of assets, debts, and shared financial responsibilities.
Child Custody & Parenting Plans
For couples with children, custody (called time-sharing in Florida) is a major consideration. The court focuses on the best interests of the child under Florida Statute § 61.13. Factors include:
- Each parent’s involvement in the child’s life
- Stability and continuity of care
- Each parent’s ability to foster a positive relationship with the other parent
Alimony Considerations
Under Florida Statute § 61.08, alimony (spousal support) is awarded based on:
- The length of the marriage
- The financial disparity between spouses
- Each spouse’s earning capacity and future financial needs
With the recent Florida alimony reform, permanent alimony is no longer granted. Instead, courts award temporary or rehabilitative alimony based on economic need.
Emotional Readiness & Alternative Solutions
Divorce isn’t always the answer. Some couples consider mediation or counseling before legally ending their marriage. Florida courts encourage alternative dispute resolution (ADR), such as mediation, to help spouses settle issues amicably and cost-effectively before heading to court.
How to Approach Divorce Without Regret?
If you’re thinking about divorce post-Valentine’s Day, take a step back before making any hasty decisions. Here are some tips to ensure you’re making the right choice:
Consult a Family Law Attorney
Even in no-fault divorces, legal representation is key to protecting your interests. A family law attorney can:
- Assess your financial standing
- Explain your rights regarding assets and custody
- Ensure a fair settlement
Be Strategic About Timing
February breakups often feel emotionally charged. If you’re considering filing for divorce, plan wisely:
- Gather financial documents
- Secure independent financial accounts
- Consider housing and custody arrangements ahead of time
Consider Mediation for a Smoother Process
Divorces don’t always have to be contentious. Mediation allows couples to negotiate child custody, property division, and alimony without a drawn-out legal battle.
Focus on Long-Term Goals, Not Short-Term Emotions
If a bad Valentine’s Day is pushing you toward divorce, ask yourself:
- Have we been unhappy for a long time, or is this a reaction to the holiday?
- Would counseling help address the deeper issues?
- Am I financially and emotionally prepared for the next steps?
The Bottom Line: When Love Ends, a New Chapter Begins
This upcoming Valentine’s Day might feel like the season of heartbreak, but it’s also an opportunity for new beginnings. If you’re considering divorce, knowing your rights under Florida law can help you make informed, rational decisions. Remember, Valentine’s Day this year is all about self-love!
At the DeWitt Law Firm, we understand that divorce is an emotional and legal challenge. Whether you need guidance on property division, custody, or alimony, our experienced family law attorneys are here to help.
Thinking about divorce in Florida? Let’s discuss your options—call the DeWitt Law Firm today!